I am tired of guys asking me on dates and then ghosting me the day of, or, worse, we are keeping contact up until the moment we are leaving the house and then they cut all contact. I have had guys talk about how excited they are to go out only to do this. And with women, we will get to the date planning, settle on something, and right when I am saying I look forward to it, they never respond ever again. There could be a plethora of reasons for why someone backs out and I can understand, but it sucks that it keeps happening. It is exhausting to keep getting to know people only to have them pull this. I like to take little breaks from dating here and there, or even long stretches sometimes depending on what goes on in my personal life, but even that seems to not be enough to keep the exhaustion and disillusionment at bay. I have no doubts about eventually meeting a match, but the road to that is quite annoying.