I posted about this a few days ago. My friend is a music producer/ writer.
A couple weeks ago, he asked me to be in his music video. I have 0 experience with music videos. When I asked him what we would be doing, he said “just need a scene of you walking and I’m just going to record from your waist down while you go up some stairs”
So I go and during the music video he was overly flirty and looked “turned on” anytime I grabbed his arm, or looked at him …at the end of the night he admitted I make him excited sexually (aka horny)😅 we didn’t touch that conversation again until today.
Today he called me and said he finished editing but not sure if he was going to post it. I said, “damn was it that bad?”
He goes “no but just watching it makes me horny” what? I’m in a dress and heels…I’m not naked…what is he even talking about? The scenes were never explicit. He starts explaining certain scenes. There’s a scene where I’m sitting down and he’s standing. When I look at him something about my eyes turn him on and he doesn’t feel comfortable sharing it.
Maybe it did come out bad and he didn’t want to admit?
Then he goes talking about how he didn’t like certain parts of his outfit too.
I told him he could do whatever he wishes there’s no issue with me if my face is out there on YouTube. He then says “well I just don’t want no one looking at your legs?”
Umm??? You initially wanted that one scene with my legs so now you don’t? Then he said “I just don’t want to show anyone and then get a random boner when I watch it…
What the hell? Is this weird???????? Is this some type of jealousy? I don’t think he likes me beyond sexual attraction. What is the issue behind all this nonsense?


7 comments

  1. It’s jealousy, it’s controlling, and insecurity.

    I’m surprised it came out like this for something as normal as working on a music video. I wouldn’t persue anything beyond just a friendship, but I wouldnt be surprised if he controls who you meet in the industry because of his own jealousy.

  2. How old are you? And how old is this “friend”? Anyone trying to be weirdly controlling while also pushing boundaries like this is not a safe person.

  3. Sounds like an incredibly brain dead way of coming on to you while also revealing how incredibly brain dead he is.

  4. He wants to sleep with you, and he’s feeding you lines. Nothing else to figure out.

  7. This is just weird control issues!! These red flags will only compound. Get OUT

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