Just went out with a guy who only talked about himself and never asked me personal questions. He then asked me to be his girlfriend after one date and got mad because I din’t give him a blowjob or didn’t have sex with him but did other sexual stuff with him.
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How was your screening process to not see these red flags pre-deciding to go on a date with him? I’m sorry to hear your experience was so poor.
Here I am doing the exact opposite of this asshole and I get ghosted before the dates ever occur.
I ask questions about them, learn about them, I’m polite and respectful, plan out dates based on their interests so it’s not just dinner. And so on.
I’m not lovebombing or being too much. Im not a boring person and have led quite an interesting and accomplished life especially with my career. I have a healthy mindset and know what it takes to create and maintain a healthy relationship.
I’m not on Tinder but have been using Meetup to try to meet women at singles events and naturally in social event groups. Maybe change your platform if you’re looking for serious dating.
It sucks out there in general.
This no guaranteed ROI in this dating market. It is what it is.
Either keep trying or give up.