Me (21 f) and this guy have been going out for 3 months. Last time we had sex I asked him why he doesn’t eat me out durning. He told me that normally it’s not something he does during sex. (Which is fine, everyone has and is aloud to have preferences) so I asked him if it’s just something that he doesn’t enjoy and he said that it’s not that. He didn’t elaborate much but it pretty much concluded to I don’t want to give “you” head. I guess if he reserves that for someone he’d have strong feelings for but we’ve already had penetrative sex multiple times, so it doesn’t make sense to me. Anyways, I told him that sex without head to me is not nearly as good, don’t get me wrong I like giving as much as I like receiving but I don’t want to do something that isn’t reciprocated. I got up, told him that this wasn’t working for me and left. Am I the asshole in this situation?