Basically, me and a co worker started talking outside of work through text around a month ago. She was supposed to join into the group for the last few weeks, but I figured I’d get to know her, went in with no romantic intentions. We hit it off for a bit, next thing I know we went on a meet up for lunch, where she was willing to drive half an hour out of her way to be there? Afterwards, we kept talking through text, but she was busy enough that she wasn’t able to do more meet ups but said “I would if I had time though” because she works a second side job.
Recently now we’ve started talking over phone calls, but I just don’t want to admit anything. What if it goes wrong? Then I have to deal with an awkward co worker for weeks on end. And when do I even ask, even if I did decide to do it? Over text, phone, or wait till she comes in person, then take her aside and ask her there?
Then of course she could have been friendly this whole time, but then why seem so enthusiastic about meeting up? Why call me back on her free time?
God I wish I could just read minds so I don’t have to play these games with myself.