Fellow submissive women, how do you manage your sex life when being with another woman who is just as submissive?
July 17, 2025
Fellow submissive women, how do you manage your sex life when being with another woman who is just as submissive?
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It sounds like incompatibility to me
Inquiring minds want to know.
my partner and I go into the yard. we select two snails.
we put them on the drive way having selected our own. whose ever makes it to the end of the driveway must eat both snails. then we must select two older women. those women must then be willing to watch over us for 3 months. after 3 months and the appropriate ceremonies involving spinning a globe covered in candle wax, climbing a cactus using only our thighs, and harnessing 2 cats to a parcel delivery sled, we both vomit. Whose ever vomit looks most like the initial snail gets to choose the sex schedule for next year.
Get a 3rd who is a dom?
Its sexual incompatiability. I have recently broken off a fling? For this reason. I am into kink, he isnt. I have met someone else, I think to some extent we are sexually compatible, but mentally compatible we maybe aren’t. He says all the right things, but somehow always leads to… us having sex.
I have met someone else, eho is good, is kind of a yes man, wants me to be the person he tries all his fantasies with.
Btw I am on a kink site so monogomy isnt expected right now.
there’s this one manga meme that has two women being embarrased/not knowing what to do in bed with the caption “and so, they were both bottoms” … I feel like that is your situation.
Seriously though, I feel like this is something you either have to discuss in dept and find some common ground in, or accept it as an incompatibility, wish I could help more
Be a verse or switch. For example gay men will be either top or bottom depending on the situation at hand.
Communication.
Honesty.
Respect.
I would communicate with my partner about expectations, wants and needs in a very honest way. We would together find a solution and figuring it out. If any of us would find out that something that was talked about is something they are not ok with after experiencing it, then we need to be respectful to each other and stop and communicate more.
Maybe we find out it’s not working, maybe we find a way. I think communication is the key.
Though this is how I think I would do, I am kinky and into bdsm and I am not really attracted to other submissives or slaves.
My girlfriend and I are still figuring that out 2 years later.
I don’t tend to hook up with fellow submissives, as there would be little point in doing so, because neither of us would be all that turned on by it, since we’re both submissives.
I’m a switch now but when I was a strict sub I just…didn’t date or have sex with other subs. because we were fundamentally incompatible and domming when you don’t want to *sucks.* As does being dommed by someone who’s not really into it.
11 comments
It sounds like incompatibility to me
Inquiring minds want to know.
my partner and I go into the yard. we select two snails.
we put them on the drive way having selected our own. whose ever makes it to the end of the driveway must eat both snails. then we must select two older women. those women must then be willing to watch over us for 3 months. after 3 months and the appropriate ceremonies involving spinning a globe covered in candle wax, climbing a cactus using only our thighs, and harnessing 2 cats to a parcel delivery sled, we both vomit. Whose ever vomit looks most like the initial snail gets to choose the sex schedule for next year.
Get a 3rd who is a dom?
Its sexual incompatiability. I have recently broken off a fling? For this reason. I am into kink, he isnt. I have met someone else, I think to some extent we are sexually compatible, but mentally compatible we maybe aren’t. He says all the right things, but somehow always leads to… us having sex.
I have met someone else, eho is good, is kind of a yes man, wants me to be the person he tries all his fantasies with.
Btw I am on a kink site so monogomy isnt expected right now.
there’s this one manga meme that has two women being embarrased/not knowing what to do in bed with the caption “and so, they were both bottoms” … I feel like that is your situation.
Seriously though, I feel like this is something you either have to discuss in dept and find some common ground in, or accept it as an incompatibility, wish I could help more
Be a verse or switch. For example gay men will be either top or bottom depending on the situation at hand.
Communication.
Honesty.
Respect.
I would communicate with my partner about expectations, wants and needs in a very honest way. We would together find a solution and figuring it out. If any of us would find out that something that was talked about is something they are not ok with after experiencing it, then we need to be respectful to each other and stop and communicate more.
Maybe we find out it’s not working, maybe we find a way. I think communication is the key.
Though this is how I think I would do, I am kinky and into bdsm and I am not really attracted to other submissives or slaves.
My girlfriend and I are still figuring that out 2 years later.
I don’t tend to hook up with fellow submissives, as there would be little point in doing so, because neither of us would be all that turned on by it, since we’re both submissives.
I’m a switch now but when I was a strict sub I just…didn’t date or have sex with other subs. because we were fundamentally incompatible and domming when you don’t want to *sucks.* As does being dommed by someone who’s not really into it.