What are some compatibility questions to ask someone you’ve already been dating for 2 years?
June 17, 2025
What are some compatibility questions to ask someone you’ve already been dating for 2 years?
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If you have been dating for 2 years, don’t you already know your compatibility with someone?
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Depends on what you already know???
Maybe timeline for big steps like moving in, marriage etc.
If you plan kids, talk more detailed about how to raise them, including with or without religion, ways of punishing etc.
To look further into the future, if there is any other place they want to live/ work someday, how they plan to help their parents when they get sick, legal issues like what kind of prenup would roughly fit for both of you, especially if one earns more or has/ wants to buy a house.
To get back into the present a bit,maybe things like if there are issues about me that bother him but he hasn’t told me yet or stuff like that.
Does this answer your question?
Two years in my husband and I were married with a baby, so I can’t imagine still trying to assess compatibility after that long.
Hmmm 2 years is quite a while… not sure if you’ve asked these questions before, but here’s my shot:
1) If I were to lose my memory in a car crash, what’s the first thing you would tell me?
2) What is a secret that I don’t know to this day, that you wish to tell me deep down?
3) NSFW: What is a kink you’ve found recently that you would like to try, and why?
Can I sniff your asshole. If they say yes it trusts you.
What does ‘forever’ actually look like to you?
If after two years you don’t know if the two of you are compatible, there’s a problem.
Buy something tricky that needs to be assembled together, preferably with vague instructions. How do they handle it? Go somewhere unfamiliar, ask them to bring you things when you are sick, have them join you for an activity you enjoy that they don’t particularly like. All of these slightly awkward situations will give you good information.
Probably ask what newness will look like what your earlier days felt like how uk this is the one for first time
10 comments
If you have been dating for 2 years, don’t you already know your compatibility with someone?
[removed]
Depends on what you already know???
Maybe timeline for big steps like moving in, marriage etc.
If you plan kids, talk more detailed about how to raise them, including with or without religion, ways of punishing etc.
To look further into the future, if there is any other place they want to live/ work someday, how they plan to help their parents when they get sick, legal issues like what kind of prenup would roughly fit for both of you, especially if one earns more or has/ wants to buy a house.
To get back into the present a bit,maybe things like if there are issues about me that bother him but he hasn’t told me yet or stuff like that.
Does this answer your question?
Two years in my husband and I were married with a baby, so I can’t imagine still trying to assess compatibility after that long.
Hmmm 2 years is quite a while… not sure if you’ve asked these questions before, but here’s my shot:
1) If I were to lose my memory in a car crash, what’s the first thing you would tell me?
2) What is a secret that I don’t know to this day, that you wish to tell me deep down?
3) NSFW: What is a kink you’ve found recently that you would like to try, and why?
Can I sniff your asshole. If they say yes it trusts you.
What does ‘forever’ actually look like to you?
If after two years you don’t know if the two of you are compatible, there’s a problem.
Buy something tricky that needs to be assembled together, preferably with vague instructions. How do they handle it? Go somewhere unfamiliar, ask them to bring you things when you are sick, have them join you for an activity you enjoy that they don’t particularly like. All of these slightly awkward situations will give you good information.
Probably ask what newness will look like what your earlier days felt like how uk this is the one for first time