What was your worse experience with another woman?
June 14, 2025
And I mean like on a personal level/friend or close person; and/or girlfriend/partner.
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Had a girl pretend to be my friend so she could try to get into my boyfriend’s pants.
In high school my best friend from kindergarten had a brief affair with my boyfriend of two years.
Went to a spa day with a girl I barely knew—supposed to be a “bonding thing.” She suggested we try a mud wrap. Somehow I ended up topless, covered in clay, and she tried to start a deep convo about past lovers. I just stared at the ceiling like… ma’am. Not like this…
She cheated on me 3 times.
Im autistic and made friends with 1 girl in 2nd grade. We both got bullied for being “weird” or for looking different (I’m Mexican American but look Asian and she was on the chunky side). When we got into middle school she started working out, dressing in more revealing clothes and got really into dating. I stayed in mu dark baggy clothes and focused on grades. In highschool her body count was in the double digits and she would make nasty remarks about absolutely everyone, even people I thought she was friends with. I skipped a grade and in my senior year got my first ever bf. I don’t think she liked this. Everyday at lunch she’d try to convince me that he was going to cheat on me with her or just dating me to get to her and that I should just dump him. It was really hard on my mental health so I decided I needed some space from her and started sitting with my bf during lunch. Then my bf told me some things she had said the day he asked me out. That she told him not to because I was “weird”. Me and my bf have been together almost 4 years now and I’ve cut contact with her.
Her parents couldn’t handle the fact she was gay and finally drove a wedge in-between us a month before our wedding.
Played with my feelings, ignored me for a few weeks, stood me up then ghosted me, and finally gaslit me about the whole thing. All while sleeping with/secretly dating someone else
I entered into a new job, into a team of two other women. Beeing younger than them, and not as experienced in the job ahead i expected them to give me tips and help me when needed. Turned out they did everything to make me feel unwelcome, such as inviting eachother out for coffee infront of me but conveniently forgetting to invite me. The older women even went as far as to talk badly about me infront of other colleagues, at work and at networking events. I also know she complained about me to my boss. Both of them also tried to claim good work I did for themselves… i guess i mad the mistake of calling them out in the moment infront of the whole team that they had nothing to do with the project and it was my work alone.
Only when the firt one decided to leave the company, the other one started to be curiously friendly towards me.
Hoping still that not all female teams are like this, but i think i prefer working with men from here onwards.
My biological sister would try to seduce my boyfriends right in front of me so there’s that. There is more to it and it gets worse but yeah. She has NPD.
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My husband and his friend wanted me to be friends his wife… I was very open to it. I met her at a music show, she never acknowledged or spoke to me, just talked to my husband. Then she talked shit about me because I wanted my husband to escort me to the bathroom and I didn’t want to sit with them anymore because she made me so uncomfortable. She calls my husband her second husband. She also told him that he’s only married to me just so he can have sex with me. Apparently I’m the problem in her eyes. Lol ok. Very odd person.
Dating a leo woman 🔪♥️
oh when she was told me how my boyf has been fucking her all this time during our relationship
Had a close friend who completely ghosted me after I got a promotion she wanted. Didn’t say a word—just cut me off. Still stings, honestly.
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I had a coworker (Beth) who lied about me to my our boss (Chuck) Yes these are real names lol because Beth can fuck off. Beth had Chuck’s ear because she worked for him for a few years. (I always wondered if they were screwing around TBH). My old boss (Bob) quit and Chuck took over Bob’s department.
A few years before all this happened Beth did the same exact thing to another colleague (Marybeth). Marybeth sued the company and won a settlement.
Anyway, I decided to quit because I saw no way of this working in my favor. I told the boss my reason for quitting and he was like “yeah, probably for the best “ LOL. The second Beth heard I gave my notice, she started honing in on another coworker (Diane) trying to get her fired or quit. But Diane was close to retiring and gave zero fucks. So Diane told Chuck to tell Beth to stay the fuck away from her. Two months later Beth quit because she didn’t have Chuck wrapped around her finger.
Oh, and in the middle of all this she invited me to her wedding 🤣. Fucking nut job.
Being roommates with a manipulative bully. She was strategic and nearly convinced everyone against one another, and continuously tried to dog pile first onto one girl, then onto me. When the other roommates caught on and started to form friendships with each other, the bully started to bring her friends into the mix. Brought her boyfriend, friends, and called her parents loudly complaining about everyone in the house. It was a hellish 7 months. I ended my lease early in the middle of my semester so I could find a new place to stay.
Coworker tried to drop me off on the side of a dark downtown street at 2:30am so that she wouldn’t miss her D appointment 🫠
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There was a mother at my kids school when he was in 3rd grade who was awful. She threw herself at any of the dads who were involved with the school, whether they were single or not. She had an affair with my son’s friend’s dad and ruined their marriage. She was also very snooty and judgmental. Such a slimy woman.
My first relationship was with a woman and when we were breaking up she said she was going to chain me and lock me up in her room if I left
You can always tell when a woman has some self esteem issues about aging by how she treats younger women. I really don’t consider it jealousy even. It’s the result of years worth of pressure to meet impossible standards of what’s considered “visually appealing”, which goes against the reality of getting older, and that makes them lash out in different ways.
I worked with a woman who reacted to those feelings by constantly trying to rain on my parade. This food will make me gain weight, or my new marriage is going to suck eventually, that sort of thing. She always jumped to mock me for not knowing something yet.
As odd as it sounds, I’m almost glad I was on the receiving end of that back then? I guess I learned a lot about all that pressure to look young and thin and how that can turn into a real doozy of a mental hurdle later on. Now I’m 40 and I remember that woman. I refuse to treat younger women the way she treated me. I want them to be able to celebrate what they have in their moment, without shitty people trying to knock ‘em down for being happy for what they have.
My friend sexually assaulted me when I was like 15. Then I realized her boyfriend was peeking at us from behind the door. I’m almost 35 now but for many years I just did not trust other women because at the time she was my “best friend” and I was so confused.
I was trying to befriend this gal who’s boyfriend was great friends with my boyfriend, we were gonna have a girls night with other gals while our boyfriends were doing something else. I got there, and she tells me I was the only one who showed and everyone cancelled (to this day I’m not sure if she invited other girls and if this was just a cover). I thought nothing of it, so we got pretty drunk and we had some convos about intimacy and wanting to try new things in the bedroom. I was pretty uncomfortable with this conversation as I’m pretty asexual / keep intimacy between myself and my bf but I was trying to be friends with her so I went along with it. She kept giving me drinks, and something in my gut told me I needed to go home, I wasn’t super drunk yet either as I was wondering if maybe this was the alcohol talking instead of my gut really telling me to get out. I instantly texted my bf and said that I wanted him to come get me, I played it off that I was too drunk and felt sick to both my bf and the girl. She got super upset that I wasn’t wanting to stay and kept trying to reason with me to stay. It seemed like she was angry, and she had this wild look in her eye while I was telling her I wanted to go home I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone look at me like that in my whole fucking life it was nuts.
15 mins later my bf shows up AND EVERYTHING GETS WEIRDER. She invites him to start drinking with us and offers him to sleep at their place, she said “we can sleep in the bed and you can sleep at the end of the bed and you can watch us spoon” additionally she kept making jokes about potential threesomes and how she sleeps naked. She wouldn’t let us leave without trying to reason fifty different times, I ended up fake puking outside as a way to at least get out. And thankfully we left, I haven’t spoken to her since this incident and I think she’s blocked me.
We got out of there, I was bawling my eyes out to my bf I wanted so badly to be friends with her. But the minute I got that gut feeling I knew I needed to act upon it. And my bf was very validating in my experience and shared that she also made him feel uncomfortable and pressured to drink and stay over that night.
Was she trying to sleep with me? Idk. Was she trying to have a threesome? Idk. But it felt weird, and the energy in the place felt bad. We no longer speak to them and I think we’re better for it.
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Had a girl pretend to be my friend so she could try to get into my boyfriend’s pants.
In high school my best friend from kindergarten had a brief affair with my boyfriend of two years.
Went to a spa day with a girl I barely knew—supposed to be a “bonding thing.” She suggested we try a mud wrap. Somehow I ended up topless, covered in clay, and she tried to start a deep convo about past lovers. I just stared at the ceiling like… ma’am. Not like this…
She cheated on me 3 times.
Im autistic and made friends with 1 girl in 2nd grade. We both got bullied for being “weird” or for looking different (I’m Mexican American but look Asian and she was on the chunky side). When we got into middle school she started working out, dressing in more revealing clothes and got really into dating. I stayed in mu dark baggy clothes and focused on grades. In highschool her body count was in the double digits and she would make nasty remarks about absolutely everyone, even people I thought she was friends with. I skipped a grade and in my senior year got my first ever bf. I don’t think she liked this. Everyday at lunch she’d try to convince me that he was going to cheat on me with her or just dating me to get to her and that I should just dump him. It was really hard on my mental health so I decided I needed some space from her and started sitting with my bf during lunch. Then my bf told me some things she had said the day he asked me out. That she told him not to because I was “weird”. Me and my bf have been together almost 4 years now and I’ve cut contact with her.
Her parents couldn’t handle the fact she was gay and finally drove a wedge in-between us a month before our wedding.
Played with my feelings, ignored me for a few weeks, stood me up then ghosted me, and finally gaslit me about the whole thing. All while sleeping with/secretly dating someone else
I entered into a new job, into a team of two other women. Beeing younger than them, and not as experienced in the job ahead i expected them to give me tips and help me when needed. Turned out they did everything to make me feel unwelcome, such as inviting eachother out for coffee infront of me but conveniently forgetting to invite me. The older women even went as far as to talk badly about me infront of other colleagues, at work and at networking events. I also know she complained about me to my boss. Both of them also tried to claim good work I did for themselves… i guess i mad the mistake of calling them out in the moment infront of the whole team that they had nothing to do with the project and it was my work alone.
Only when the firt one decided to leave the company, the other one started to be curiously friendly towards me.
Hoping still that not all female teams are like this, but i think i prefer working with men from here onwards.
My biological sister would try to seduce my boyfriends right in front of me so there’s that. There is more to it and it gets worse but yeah. She has NPD.
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My husband and his friend wanted me to be friends his wife… I was very open to it. I met her at a music show, she never acknowledged or spoke to me, just talked to my husband. Then she talked shit about me because I wanted my husband to escort me to the bathroom and I didn’t want to sit with them anymore because she made me so uncomfortable. She calls my husband her second husband. She also told him that he’s only married to me just so he can have sex with me. Apparently I’m the problem in her eyes. Lol ok. Very odd person.
Dating a leo woman 🔪♥️
oh when she was told me how my boyf has been fucking her all this time during our relationship
Had a close friend who completely ghosted me after I got a promotion she wanted. Didn’t say a word—just cut me off. Still stings, honestly.
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I had a coworker (Beth) who lied about me to my our boss (Chuck) Yes these are real names lol because Beth can fuck off. Beth had Chuck’s ear because she worked for him for a few years. (I always wondered if they were screwing around TBH). My old boss (Bob) quit and Chuck took over Bob’s department.
A few years before all this happened Beth did the same exact thing to another colleague (Marybeth). Marybeth sued the company and won a settlement.
Anyway, I decided to quit because I saw no way of this working in my favor. I told the boss my reason for quitting and he was like “yeah, probably for the best “ LOL. The second Beth heard I gave my notice, she started honing in on another coworker (Diane) trying to get her fired or quit. But Diane was close to retiring and gave zero fucks. So Diane told Chuck to tell Beth to stay the fuck away from her. Two months later Beth quit because she didn’t have Chuck wrapped around her finger.
Oh, and in the middle of all this she invited me to her wedding 🤣. Fucking nut job.
Being roommates with a manipulative bully. She was strategic and nearly convinced everyone against one another, and continuously tried to dog pile first onto one girl, then onto me. When the other roommates caught on and started to form friendships with each other, the bully started to bring her friends into the mix. Brought her boyfriend, friends, and called her parents loudly complaining about everyone in the house. It was a hellish 7 months. I ended my lease early in the middle of my semester so I could find a new place to stay.
Coworker tried to drop me off on the side of a dark downtown street at 2:30am so that she wouldn’t miss her D appointment 🫠
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There was a mother at my kids school when he was in 3rd grade who was awful. She threw herself at any of the dads who were involved with the school, whether they were single or not. She had an affair with my son’s friend’s dad and ruined their marriage. She was also very snooty and judgmental. Such a slimy woman.
My first relationship was with a woman and when we were breaking up she said she was going to chain me and lock me up in her room if I left
You can always tell when a woman has some self esteem issues about aging by how she treats younger women. I really don’t consider it jealousy even. It’s the result of years worth of pressure to meet impossible standards of what’s considered “visually appealing”, which goes against the reality of getting older, and that makes them lash out in different ways.
I worked with a woman who reacted to those feelings by constantly trying to rain on my parade. This food will make me gain weight, or my new marriage is going to suck eventually, that sort of thing. She always jumped to mock me for not knowing something yet.
As odd as it sounds, I’m almost glad I was on the receiving end of that back then? I guess I learned a lot about all that pressure to look young and thin and how that can turn into a real doozy of a mental hurdle later on. Now I’m 40 and I remember that woman. I refuse to treat younger women the way she treated me. I want them to be able to celebrate what they have in their moment, without shitty people trying to knock ‘em down for being happy for what they have.
My friend sexually assaulted me when I was like 15. Then I realized her boyfriend was peeking at us from behind the door. I’m almost 35 now but for many years I just did not trust other women because at the time she was my “best friend” and I was so confused.
I was trying to befriend this gal who’s boyfriend was great friends with my boyfriend, we were gonna have a girls night with other gals while our boyfriends were doing something else. I got there, and she tells me I was the only one who showed and everyone cancelled (to this day I’m not sure if she invited other girls and if this was just a cover). I thought nothing of it, so we got pretty drunk and we had some convos about intimacy and wanting to try new things in the bedroom. I was pretty uncomfortable with this conversation as I’m pretty asexual / keep intimacy between myself and my bf but I was trying to be friends with her so I went along with it. She kept giving me drinks, and something in my gut told me I needed to go home, I wasn’t super drunk yet either as I was wondering if maybe this was the alcohol talking instead of my gut really telling me to get out. I instantly texted my bf and said that I wanted him to come get me, I played it off that I was too drunk and felt sick to both my bf and the girl. She got super upset that I wasn’t wanting to stay and kept trying to reason with me to stay. It seemed like she was angry, and she had this wild look in her eye while I was telling her I wanted to go home I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone look at me like that in my whole fucking life it was nuts.
15 mins later my bf shows up AND EVERYTHING GETS WEIRDER. She invites him to start drinking with us and offers him to sleep at their place, she said “we can sleep in the bed and you can sleep at the end of the bed and you can watch us spoon” additionally she kept making jokes about potential threesomes and how she sleeps naked. She wouldn’t let us leave without trying to reason fifty different times, I ended up fake puking outside as a way to at least get out. And thankfully we left, I haven’t spoken to her since this incident and I think she’s blocked me.
We got out of there, I was bawling my eyes out to my bf I wanted so badly to be friends with her. But the minute I got that gut feeling I knew I needed to act upon it. And my bf was very validating in my experience and shared that she also made him feel uncomfortable and pressured to drink and stay over that night.
Was she trying to sleep with me? Idk. Was she trying to have a threesome? Idk. But it felt weird, and the energy in the place felt bad. We no longer speak to them and I think we’re better for it.