How did you get over that one heartbreak which didn’t even have a label?
June 10, 2025
How did you get over that one heartbreak which didn’t even have a label?
12 comments
I found a partner a little bit afterwards and im glad it happened the way it did. Gives you perspective ❤️
I read “My Girl” while crying in the bathroom.
Slightly dramatic for a relationship that never quite happened before he returned to Norway but you know, i feel like i never quite got over Thomas J so … two birds, one stone.
Therapy, talked to many more guys to distract myself, and got a hobby (makeup, doing my hair, and working out). I was 19 so I did what I could to get better and it sort of worked? LOL
Cried, spent sometime just connecting back to me. Depending the situationship this could take a day to weeks or even more. Take the time you need. Heartbreak is heartbreak, you don’t need a title to be hurt.
Time
Time and physical distance
I didn’t.
Dwelled on it until I had no physical feelings/reactions in my body of the memories that kept replaying! It happened and there’s no need to judge myself for giving it my best shot, someone else better is out there!
I tries to convince myself that it was for the best and tried to improve my own lifestyle before I eventually jumped in to dating again. Also the worse feeling about not having the label is that it is difficult to mourn because I was mourning what could have been
I don’t think I have. I feel like my hearts still completely and utterly broken.
12 comments
I found a partner a little bit afterwards and im glad it happened the way it did. Gives you perspective ❤️
I read “My Girl” while crying in the bathroom.
Slightly dramatic for a relationship that never quite happened before he returned to Norway but you know, i feel like i never quite got over Thomas J so … two birds, one stone.
Therapy, talked to many more guys to distract myself, and got a hobby (makeup, doing my hair, and working out). I was 19 so I did what I could to get better and it sort of worked? LOL
Cried, spent sometime just connecting back to me. Depending the situationship this could take a day to weeks or even more. Take the time you need. Heartbreak is heartbreak, you don’t need a title to be hurt.
Time
Time and physical distance
I didn’t.
Dwelled on it until I had no physical feelings/reactions in my body of the memories that kept replaying! It happened and there’s no need to judge myself for giving it my best shot, someone else better is out there!
I tries to convince myself that it was for the best and tried to improve my own lifestyle before I eventually jumped in to dating again. Also the worse feeling about not having the label is that it is difficult to mourn because I was mourning what could have been
I don’t think I have. I feel like my hearts still completely and utterly broken.
Realising he never gave a fuck about me.
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