So my boyfriend and I (20F) have been sexual for almost a year now, I was a complete virgin before. I’m still very shy in the bedroom and I want to fix that. I want to incorporate talking to him (right now I’m silence expect for when I’m moaning 🤡). He does talk to me sometimes, telling me he loves me and loves to touch my body, etc.
Something I’ve been thinking about these past weeks is talking him through a blowjob. It’s something he said he used to really enjoy in porn (we’ve both decided to stop watching porn) and I’d love to hear his responses (I use to love audio porn before we started our celibacy to porn lol). I have no idea how to go about this without sounding to porn-y though. I don’t want to sound like a pornstar because it would feel to forced and disingenuous. Plus, having never talked in the bedroom to talking like a pornstar is too big of a leap for me.
I have no clue how to initiate or continue talking him through a blowjob. I do want to encourage him to talk back to me, telling me he enjoys it and to moan for me (audio kinks lol). But how can I *actually* do this? I need a play by play lol. Thanks in advance!
TLDR: How to talk my boyfriend through a blowjob?