My wife left last night with the kids.
I get how I talked to her is wrong and I shouldn’t have. I regret it, I want her and the kids home.
She texted me this; “I have tried to tell you I can’t do this anymore. It is sad how it took you this long to realize you’re in the wrong. I am not saying all of our problems are your fault but when you speak to me in a way that you know you shouldn’t then get angry because I say my opinion on it, is wrong. I have told you I have different views on things and I have an opinion. You do not have to agree with them but also you don’t have to argue over them. I can no longer be around someone toxic, you need to go get help. I mean besides therapy, like it is okay to get put on some type of medicine that will help with these moods. I love you, but that’s not enough. I need, no want more out of you. I want a husband who respects me as a person and not down talk me like a dog. I can’t come home right now, I did try and what did you do? Get angry at your cousin and started to flip out on me. Do you want the kids Friday evening til Sunday after I get off? If so, let me know and we will do drop off and pick up at DQ”.
I know my marriage is over, this is just the beginning of it all. I don’t even know what else to do.
I’m at home and I’m lonely and it’s quiet. Maybe I should have listened to her, I should have treated her better.
I responded, “I’m sorry please don’t do this. I regret how I spoke to you. I know it isn’t your fault. We need to talk and figure this out. How are you working with no sitter”?
I’m curious who is watching our kids.
Her response, “a family member. Let me know if you want the kids for the weekend or not”.
Short text, I guess I did mess up big time. How do I repair this?