…a long term/for life relationship with someone who you’re not 100% sexually attracted to but you are best friends, you can rely on each other to get through life, you share everything, you genuinely love each other and you have regular sex (3-5 times a week)
OR
..you spend the rest of your days exploring all that life has to offer and casually dating different people you are more sexually attracted to but without any real meaningful connection, you’re never totally sure if you can trust them, you spend most of your time alone and only get to have sex 1-3 times a month because of work and finding people?
For context, my wife and I have been married for 6 years and have 2 young children. I didn’t have much experience dating before we married, we’ve been best friends since we were young and I don’t find her as sexually attractive since she had kids. She works and has the kids and looks after her sick mom. She is the best person I know, but I don’t know if I just want to be friends and go out and sleep with people I’m more attracted to. I feel like I’ll always regret not sleeping with more attractive women!