So it’s only been the last year this has started happening. When I google it I only come up with reasons for nausea/vomiting AFTER sex, but I’m dealing with it DURING. It almost always happens when I have intercourse on my stomach and sometimes when I lay on my back. It has never happened while I’m on top. It happens REALLY fast, I’ll start to feel nauseous and sometimes I can fight if off. If I can’t fight it off I’ll start to gag, and a few times I’ve actually thrown up (luckily not on my partner). It’s so frustrating to go from having amazing sex and really enjoying myself to five seconds later I’m running for the bathroom choking back bile.
I’ve talked about it with my doctor but he writes it off as it’s psychosomatic problems from past sexual abuse. I 100% DO NOT think it pertains to that at all. I have always had a “healthy” sex life even after I was sexually assaulted. (I use the word “healthy” very loosely since I’m obsessed with older men and extremely fucked up sex, but I digress/not the issue here). I’ve never had a problem with performing mentally, physically, or emotionally before this. It feels like something is actually wrong when I start to get nauseous, not like a mental sick but a physical sick. I’ve been tested for like every STD/STI known to man and I have a clean bill of health.
My OB/GYN tested me (blood and ultrasound) to make sure I was pregnant and I’m 100% negative. I DO have Endometriosis, I’ve had it for over a decade but this has never been a symptom of it. My OB also told me this has never been a symptom of Endo she’s ever heard of. Even she is stumped on what could be causing my nausea during sex. She said it usually happens after and she’s never heard of it happening during. The only answer she can try to give me is she thinks it’s my inflammation flaring up but it doesn’t hurt at all. You would think if I’m vomiting from discomfort I would feel pain, but it’s literally just waves of nausea. I feel like a fucking anomaly that grew a gag reflex in her pussy lol
I don’t really know what outcome I want from this post I guess? Like advice, others personal experience with this so I don’t feel like there’s something wrong with just me, maybe if there’s a more knowledgeable doctor here they can tell me why it’s happening 😂 I just really want to see what I can do about it so I don’t have to keep interrupting my partner during sex because I might throw up.