So I have been in love with a girl for 4 years. Our familes are in agreement now. I haven’t been very good with her, like not picking up her calls, replying without energy most of the times (took her for granted). She had true love for me.
But with one month remaining in marriage, my girl said she has lost all the feelings for me and she likes someone else who also likes her in return, as that man gives her what she always desired from me; prioritisation and good behaviour. (she is deeply hurt that she lost feelings for me but says this is out of her control now. She also says she is unable to leave either me or him)
Now, her family doesn’t want to initiate anything with that family (bcz they live distant, they are out of family and her family likes us etc). So our families are now proceeding with it.
I have very very deep love for her. I, being a male, have cried for past 3-4 days, reflected upon my behaviour, begging to her choose me. I can not live without her. I just need one chance to make everything right.
Now due to her family involvement, she has agreed to proceed with me, basically giving me that one final chance. It’s been two days and I have been super good to her but she constantly says I snatched her happiness (her happiness lies in being with that person)
Now, if I do everything right, msg her constantly, go out with her (whenever we go out, she starts missing me in that form of love which she had previously), give her what she desired from me (warmth),
can she ever return to love me again and forget that person ?
Tldr : she had real love for me before and she lost due to my bad attitude. I am lost in life due to her absence. I am getting another chance of being together and make everything right but with two days in being, she constantly says I have snatched her happiness by bringing her into my life.