I F24 am weirded out by my fiancées M26 words. We have been together for 8 months.
Yesterday we were messing about with Snapchat filters when we got to the one where it makes you look old. He literally said “Oh my god you look exactly like my mum”. I looked absolutely nothing like her besides the skin tone (we’re both South Asian).
A few weeks ago, he also called me “mom” during an argument we had. I told him that I felt weird about it and he said it was an accident and it was only because I was being “bossy” and it reminded him of his mom.
He is incredibly close to his mom, tells her practically everything, and I’ve never thought much into that until now.
I don’t know if I’m overthinking this but I feel incredibly weirded out and since then I have been acting off with him and he’s starting to notice.
What do I do in this situation?
TLDR: my fiancée called me mom and said I look like her and now I feel weird and awkward around him
EDIT: I spoke to my fiancée, mentioned the Oedipus complex and how men tend to go for women who look like their mothers (subconsciously) and now he’s mad at me and accusing me of calling him a weirdo.