Should I (32m) continue to date this girl (23f) long distance who I just met.
So I met this girl on a dating app and thought she was cute. Where in complete opposite ends of the country. We talked and after just 3 days of talking I flew out to see her and meet her after FaceTiming and texting a bit. She was really nice on FT and was very sweet.
Upon meeting her things were a bit different she would not look me in the eye, she would be very awkward, and she almost took no initiative to ask me anything.
She did explain to me she has many traumas and cannot look guys in the eye because of her troubled childhood. But she talks a lot and always about herself so I find it hard that she cannot ask me a single good question or take any interest in me.
Also when being intimate with her she does not take any initiative or at least doesn’t do anything sexual. It would have to be me to initiate it and be sexual.
After flying to see her I still kept talking to her and currently am but I don’t think I can do this anymore. She is very self centered, she says she is empathetic but I don’t see it cause she just cares about herself. Doesn’t ask me any questions. And doesn’t really make any effort to make me want to see her again.
What should I do? I dont want to explain to her and baby her on how to be a better partner because I feel I would be wasting my time. And I also feel I shouldn’t have to tell someone these common sense things. I do feel our age gap also affects me.
TLDR: I am dating a self centered 23f who I feel does not have common sense when it comes to dating or relationships and I want to end it but I am not sure if I should? Any thoughts? What should I do?