Okay, I don’t post and my grammar and everything sucks, but here we go
So we’ve hardly had much sex for about 6-8 months now, we moved into a new place in November and only did the deed about 2 times, for me, I don’t see it as just sex, it’s special to me because it’s with the girl I love and it makes me feel so close to her and loved, anyway, we recently talked about how I feel like we have been getting less and less intimate over time and how this has been making me feel like she is finding me less attractive and that I think we should try to be more intimate like we used to be. so on Friday, she worked till 8 PM and then when she got home, we would have our fun, I had the day off so I made sure that there would be nothing for us to have to worry about, all the laundry was done, all dishes and pots washed, rubbish taken out, house cleaned, clothes ready for her to wear and slippers ready for after she showers that night and all food was prepared and waiting to be taken out of the fridge for a late dinner. when my gf gets home I am excited as I’ve been waiting for her to get home all day, I listen to how her day was and interact with her as normal, she’s telling me how she aches from work, so I offer before we get down and dirty, to give her a massage, she says yes and that she would love it, but as shes got undressed and on the bed as I start massaging her, she’s telling me shes cold and tired and I offer to give her a blanket and that the massage should help, she then says the massage doesn’t matter and that we should just get to the sex, at this point, I’m like “sure, okay”, but then when im starting the foreplay, she goes on about how it’s late, she’s hungry, she’s tired and cold, just not seeming like she even wants to do it and it all just ended up putting me out of the mood, I just told her it doesnt matter and she can go get her shower if she wanted and I would start making dinner. A bit later she decided she wanted to order instead and while we waited for it I got upset and started to tear up at how crappy the night turned out. I just felt stupid for crying about a stupid thing and that It wasn’t a big thing to cry over.
TL;DR – My (24M) girlfriend (23F) of 5 years was just really negative, complaining about things and just not trying to get into our long overdue planned sex night, was I stupid for getting so upset about this?