Previous thread is here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/comments/18tbypx/m24\_f22\_girlfriend\_is\_cheating\_on\_me\_right\_now\_in/](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/18tbypx/m24_f22_girlfriend_is_cheating_on_me_right_now_in/) (needed a new account because of Reddit’s rules)
previous **TDLR**: I was working a lot for the last month. My girlfriend said, she wants a break on Christmas and lied to me, that she would stay at her mother’s place. I called her mother and found out, that my girlfriend is not there but that my gf went to drink a coffee with some other guy a week or so ago. My gf came to our apartment a few hours ago and told me, she slept at this guy’s home after I asked about him. She then immediately left (presumably with him) again. What should I do, when my gf comes back to get her stuff again? Is there still any hope left?
**Update:** During the night, I packed as much of her belongings as I could and put them in bags. I wrote her father to please pick these up, because I do not want to see his daughter again, but that I am sorry for him, because he was always a nice guy. My (ex-?)girlfriend just wrote me a few hours ago, that this is all a misunderstanding. She said, she was just sleeping on this guys couch and not at her moms place, because she did not want her to worry and that she actually still cares a lot for me and would like to have a talk with me. I agreed that we should talk. I asked my mother and father, if I should trust her and both disagreed. I really want to trust her. I do not know if she tells the truth. I have loved her very dearly, but I cannot forget the dead eyes she had when I told her, that if she leaves, that she should never come back. What should I do? She will probably be here in a few minutes or hours. I do not want to break up, but I just cannot trust her currently. Btw, she also told me, that she only had a coffee with this guy, because they randomly met in the city while buying christmas gifts. She also previously cheated on her old boyfriend.
**TLDR;** My (ex-?)gf wrote me and told me she is sorry. She just wanted to have distance and did not want to tell her parents we had problems and therefor slept at her friends place. She said, she only slept on the sofa and they only drank a coffee a week before, because they randomly met in the city while buying gifts. She comes over in a few minutes/hours and we will talk. Should I trust her? How can I find the truth? She also previously cheated on her old boyfriend. How should I handle this situation?