I’ve been talking about going to an artists particular concert and early fall around Aug-Sept. I explained to my bf that if he wanted to get me anything for Christmas let it be tickets to see this person (rod wave) and if he couldn’t afford it lmk and i would understand ofc. so in the back of my mind i’m thinking we’re going to the concert in dec because he was asking where i would wanna sit at (floor seats, nose bleeds etc) and i said it doesn’t matter as long as i’m there i’m happy doesn’t matter where we sit. i also thought we were going because i sent him a tiktok of a pandoras braclet kind of thing and i was like should i add this to my list or not and he replied back saying “i thought you wanted to go to the concert” and i was like yesss i do wanna go and he said okay then there won’t be no list because i’m going to the concert and i completely understood and he also said he gonna figure it out. so in my head i’m thinking hell yeah we going… and then sometimes this month he asks for my christmas list…mind you i don’t really have one cause my main focus was the concert so i had to put stuff together and i sent it to him and then today i was talking g about the concert and he was like we not going no more that’s why i was asking for the list. so ofc i was upset because i thought we were going … turns out he wanted to surprise me with tickets and i’m confused on how he was going to surprise me with tickets when i already thought we were going and he’s saying i shouldn’t have felt upset and that i shouldn’t have been thinking anything.
What do y’all think about this situation?