I(F24) am dating this guy(M25) I met on tinder, and we are dating exclusively. The last few days they haven’t spoken that much to me, but I know it is because of school. But there is still a part in me that is worried that it is because they are talking to someone else. So he basically just uses snap to talk with me, but I have seen that he has been online at some points where we haven’t talked.
So I got curious if they had used tinder, so I downloaded it again and checked if the miles had changed on his profile. They had changed.
I have no idea how to ask him about this and what to do. I also have no idea if the miles thing on tinder is a bug or not, because I have read that it may be.
I am now sitting here with scary thoughts in my head like for exampme that he has betrayed me and is talking with other people.
I know I should talk with him about it, but I have no idea how to take this up with him. I am afraid that he is gonna think I am crazy or something. How should I ask him about this?
TL;DR I am unsure if the guy I am dating is talking with other people or is still on dating apps, and I have no idea how to bring this up. I am also worried that it is my trust issues being triggered.