This happened a few years ago so this is an old issues but from time to time this this bugs me. For background I was already dating this person for a couple year at the time of the event. Also for context I am a white female and my partner in this story is a mix race male.
I’m not really sure how the “issue” as I’m going to put it came into conversation but my partner told me, white is the least attractive race. Yes I understand this is an opinion or a preference, that’s fine, but why say this to me your white partner. If this conversation where the other way around I would be racist and people would have told him to leave me,or at the least he might be hurt. It just felt like I was being told that I and very one that looks like me is unattractive. And for those who are going to say I’m insecure, yes yes I am and my partner was well aware by the point of the event. The hole thing felt confusing as yeah your telling me one thing but your also dating me so? I know it make no difference but at that point in my life I really didn’t see color, sure there are people who are more or less attractive but I had never narrowed it down to a race😬 is that just me? Well if anyone can help me either get over feeling weird about this or give advice I would much appreciate it.